“The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct.” -Carl Jung

What do you do?

Kink is not the same for everyone and that’s beautiful! The different flavors of life are to be honored and savored so …

Whether your Kinks are Vanilla or Rocky Road with sprinkles and sauce, I am here to help unleash your passion for Play.

Play is the most important aspect of life. This is the foundation of my Koaching philosophy. Play keeps us young, adaptable, compassionate, and curious. It promotes creativity, learning, and combats stress.

What You Get

In Person or Phone/Zoom lessons with the Kink Koach
(60 minutes per lesson)

I am located in Minneapolis Minnesota and Central Standard Time

Work sheets, exercises & suggested resources to continue your progress on your own time

Pricing

Pricing is based on number of attendees to the 60min lesson.

There are package rates available for those who wish to book 4 or more lessons at a time. Please inquire with booking.

1 Person

$99 per/hr

2 People

$180 per/hr

(10% OFF)

3+ People

$240+ per/hr

(20% Off)

All lessons are paid for in advance, and are non-refundable. Missed Lessons can be rescheduled up to 6 months after purchase. Package rates are available for 4+ Lesson Packages.

Inquire during booking.

  • Kink Lessons

    Kink instruction for beginners in the Lifestyle, working with couples to improve their Kink dynamics, scene structure and creation, co-sceneing with beginners to advanced, and Pro Domme training. Whatever your flavor from French Vanilla to Rocky Road, Kink can spice up your love life and beyond.

  • Romance Lessons

    Learn how to make your partner smile, swoon, sizzle, and fall in love with you all over again! Incorporate your love languages into passionate communication, structured romance games, touching gestures, and sensual date ideas!

  • Tease and Please Lessons

    Shake, shimmy, tease and please! Learn the art of the striptease and sensual lap dance to bring some zing into your foreplay! Participants learn the foundational skills to add this sensual play style to their bedroom fun, in addition to a simple striptease/lapdance to a song of their choice!

Play time with those you love, like or (ethically) lust, allows for the release of all four major “happy” hormones (Serotonin, Dopamine, Endorphins and Oxytocin) through exercise, affection, connection and laughter.

Kink Journey


Self discovery and creation is a life long process that progresses in the most wonderful, frustrating, confusing, extraordinary, backward, lovely, zig zag of ways. Having a guide there to help you navigate this growth is the best way to experience success.

You have questions and I will help you find your answers. Maybe you want technique advice on a specific kinky sexual act, maybe you want to know what your kinks even are, maybe you are an advanced member of the Lifestyle and want to enhance your skills in mental and physical play or maybe you want just a touch of French Vanilla romance to connect with your partner(s).

Whatever the flavor of your desires, I offer a supportive, positive, and encouraging place to explore. Lessons include practical advice on exactly how to perform many kink techniques that you’re interested in, romance activities to enhance connection, tease techniques and more. I am excited to share with you and yours my firsthand experience as a professional and lifestyle Mistrixx and BDSM educator.

Kink involves trust and vulnerability, balance, personal boundaries, overcoming societal shame, and your sense of self. A koach is an invaluable investment to deepen your experiences in Kink, and reap the benefits that extend far outside the bedroom. A good koach can help you unleash your passion for Play and take you on the amazing, life altering, healing and joyful adventure of Kink.