“The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct.”
-Carl Jung
Lifestyle Kink Coaching
Kink is not the same for everyone and that’s beautiful! The different flavors of life are to be honored and savored so …
Whether your Kinks are Vanilla or Rocky Road with sprinkles and sauce, I am here to help unleash your passion for Play.
Discover your authentic kinky self in a supportive, judgment-free space. Whether you're new to kink, reclaiming your desires, or refining your power exchange dynamics, this koaching is designed to meet you where you are.
Build confidence, deepen self-awareness, and learn essential safety practices while exploring skills like scene construction, consent negotiation, dynamic rituals and BDSM skills. Perfect for Dominants, submissives, switches, couples, polycules, and curious solos alike.
We'll work together to craft your unique persona, cultivate your personal protocol, and turn fantasy into intentional, empowering experiences. Private 1:1 sessions, couples koaching, and small group packages available.
What You Get
In Person or Phone/Zoom lessons with the Kink Koach
(60 minutes per lesson)
I am located in Minneapolis Minnesota and Central Standard Time. Each Koaching session will be tailored to your needs and desires.
Work sheets, exercises & suggested resources to continue your progress on your own time
Sample Lessons Include:
Impact Play Safety, Tools, and Techniques
How to Successfully Construct a Kink Scene from Start to Aftercare
Building Confidence in Roleplay and Power Dynamics
Developing Your Dominant or Submissive Persona
Negotiation, Boundaries, and Consent Essentials
Sensation Play Techniques for Every Experience Level
Creative Scene Ideas for Couples, Polycules, and Solo Players
Understanding Protocols and Rituals in Power Exchange
Exploring Fetish and Fantasy in a Safe, Supportive Space
Practical Tools for Erotic Humiliation and Praise Play
Introduction to High Protocol Dynamics
Psychological Play: Mind Games, Control, and Connection
How to Introduce Kink to a Partner
Creating Personalized Kink Contracts and Agreements
Self-Topping and Solo Submission: Empowering Solo Kink Practices
Navigating Kink in Non-Monogamous Relationships
Dealing with Drop: Emotional Care for Tops and Bottoms
Building Your Kink Toy Bag: Essentials and Creative Pervertables
How to Incorporate Kink into Your Daily Life
Confidence Coaching for Commanding a Room (or Dungeon)
Choose from 20+ lessons or work with me to create a custom-tailored Koaching plan made just for you.
“Play is the most important aspect of life. This is the foundation of My Koaching philosophy. Play keeps us young, adaptable, compassionate, and curious. It promotes creativity, learning, and combats stress. "
-MistrixxJ
Pricing
Pricing is based on number of attendees to the 60min lesson.
There are package rates available for those who wish to book 4 or more lessons at a time. Please inquire with booking.
1 Person
$99 per/hr
2 People
$180 per/hr
(10% OFF)
3+ People
$240+ per/hr
(20% Off)
All lessons are paid for in advance, and are non-refundable. Missed Lessons can be rescheduled up to 6 months after purchase.
Package rates are available when you book 4+ lessons at a time. Inquire during booking.
Kink Journey
Self discovery and creation is a life long process that progresses in the most wonderful, frustrating, confusing, extraordinary, backward, lovely, zig zag of ways. Having a guide there to help you navigate this growth is the best way to experience success.
You have questions and I will help you find your answers. Maybe you want technique advice on a specific kinky sexual act, maybe you want to know what your kinks even are, maybe you are an advanced member of the Lifestyle and want to enhance your skills in mental and physical play or maybe you want just a touch of French Vanilla romance to connect with your partner(s).
Whatever the flavor of your desires, I offer a supportive, positive, and encouraging place to explore. Lessons include practical advice on exactly how to perform many kink techniques that you’re interested in, romance activities to enhance connection, tease techniques and more. I am excited to share with you and yours my firsthand experience as a professional and lifestyle Mistrixx and BDSM educator.
Kink involves trust and vulnerability, balance, personal boundaries, overcoming societal shame, and your sense of self. A koach is an invaluable investment to deepen your experiences in Kink, and reap the benefits that extend far outside the bedroom. A good koach can help you unleash your passion for Play and take you on the amazing, life altering, healing and joyful adventure of Kink.